Most of us have people in our lives that drive us crazy. Bosses, Parents, Partners, Siblings, Friends, Enemies….whoever. This is my attempt to understand the dynamics of this type of situation, and how to counter it.
Hint: it’s their stuff not yours: helpful maybe to understand it, so as to forecast or understand their attacks, but the real issue is why does their stuff hurt you so damn much? As the Tao Te Ching says: “What is a bad man; a good man’s teacher.”